Held Under: Protecting What I Cannot Reach Hardcover – February 17, 2026

Held UnderWhat happens when a man trained to protect must stand still?When the threat is not a battlefield —but distance, paperwork, and time?In Held Under, Dr. Eric Infanti tells the story of a Marine veteran who found himself fighting a different kind of war: the slow, suffocating pressure of an immigration system moving at a pace indifferent to love.While his wife Maryam and daughter Eli wait overseas in Tehran— under the shadow of geopolitical instability and regional conflict — Eric waited in North Carolina. Watching portals. Tracking timelines. Filing motions. Escalating legally. Sleeping barely. Training harder. Praying louder. Holding composure while the instinct to act burned beneath the surface.This is not a political manifesto.It is a study of pressure.Part love story, part trauma examination, Held Under explores what prolonged uncertainty does to the nervous system, to masculine identity, to faith, and to the protector’s instinct when protection cannot be physical.Inside these pages, you will witness:The ceremony of filing — when hope felt like fire.The first tightening realization that “17 months” was only the beginning.The compulsive portal-checking spiral and its physiological toll.The internal conflict between strength and helplessness.The congressional “Do Not Contact Before December” moment that formalized silence.The decision to pursue a federal mandamus action — law instead of force.The call in a new home office she told him to buy.The embrace in Atlanta airport — where a scarf from Istanbul carried continents into one moment.The first night sleeping under one roof again — where vigilance finally loosened.Through disciplined prose and restrained emotion, Infanti refuses the posture of victimhood. Instead, he offers moral clarity, devotion, and a refined understanding of protection:Sometimes protection is not force.Sometimes it is paperwork.Sometimes it is endurance.At its core, Held Under is about love under strain.It is about a man who does not fracture when submerged.It is about a woman who carries grace through uncertainty.It is about a daughter who learns resilience without being hardened by it.It is about a family who survives delay without surrendering tenderness.For veterans navigating civilian systems…For families living between nations…For men grappling with identity under constraint…For anyone who has waited inside silence longer than they thought they could…This book will feel familiar.Dr. Infanti writes with the voice of a warrior refined by restraint — blending disciplined clarity with intimate vulnerability. He does not shout about a broken system; he reveals what that system does to a human being who refuses to collapse inside it.And in the end, Held Under offers something rare:Not triumph.Not spectacle.But proximity.The sacred ordinariness of reaching across a bed at night and knowing the one you love is finally home. Read more